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Third in a series about recession-proofing your job.
Cultivate work relationships.
A lot of business that goes on, doesn’t go on at work. You need to be tuned in to this “informal” work environment if you want to stay competitive.
If you’re the kind of person who thinks company picnics, golf outings, birthday pot-lucks and after work get-togethers are a waste of time, you’re missing out on a huge potential career booster.
These events are crucial to positioning yourself as a team player and a valuable asset to the company. Effective work relationships form the basis for promotions, job assignments, pay raises and who gets picked to stay when layoffs happen.
No matter what your education, experience level or job title, if you don’t learn to play well with others you’ll be packing up your desk when good ol’ mediocre Jim in the next cubicle is comparing golf scores with the boss.
But I HATE organized, mandatory fun
I’m with you. The good news is, you don’t need to become a compulsive joiner if that isn’t your style. Just make sure you get some face time at events and that your participation is noted.
You don’t have to participate in a weekly bar crawl to be one of the group. Drop by for Happy Hour once a month, nurse a soda-and-lime for 45 minutes, laugh at some jokes, ask Sam in accounting how his new baby is, and hit the road.
If you cringe at the thought of making small talk with dozens (or hundreds) of your fellow employees, volunteer to work at the next company event. Ladling out punch, or helping to clear tables, will take your mind off the need to schmooze people while still getting you the face time you need.
The point is, perception is everything. If people perceive you as being part of the “team”, then you’re part of the team—even if your participation begins and ends with moving furniture.
When I first joined the Navy, I attended Officer Candidate School in Newport, RI. We were graded every few weeks by a process called “peer evals”, which told us what the other members of our company (read: team) thought about us.
For the first peer eval, I got very low grades in teamwork and getting along with my fellow Officer Candidates. So, I started going down to the wardroom every morning, making myself a cup of tea and sitting there. I didn’t really chat anyone up, or make a lot of conversation, and I didn’t change anything else about my behavior. At the next set of peer evals, my scores on teamwork were significantly higher.
Nothing changed, except the perception of the other people who saw me daily in a communal setting, smiling and being “available”. I learned a valuable lesson during those weeks. Many people place a very high priority on comaraderie and esprit de corps, often ranking it higher than actual competance or skill.
People want to be around other people who make them feel comfortable. If it’s a close call on who to keep and who to let go, you want to make sure the perception others have about you is a positive, team-oriented one.
We’ll talk more about work relationships in my next post.
In the meantime, tell me about a time when perception differed from reality for you, or someone you worked with, and how it all played out.
You’re NOT Fired!—Recession-Proof Your Job, part 1
You’re NOT Fired!—Recession-Proof Your Job, part 2








